DARVO (Pronounced dhar-vo)
The acronym of Deny, Attack & Reverse Victim and Offender.
1997: Coined by US academic psychologist Dr
Jennifer J Freyd in 1997 in Violations of
power, adaptive blindness, and betrayal trauma theory in the journal Feminism & Psychology (7, 22-32). The initialism references both the behavior
of perpetrators of wrongdoing (said to be prevalent especially among sexual
offenders) and the tactic used in courtrooms by counsel for the defense, attacking
the victim, reversing the roles of victim and offender.
DARVO references the reaction noted
sometimes of perpetrators of wrong doing.
Said to be most prevalent among sexual offenders, as a general principle,
it’s treated as a response to being held accountable for their behavior and is
in its simplest form an elaborated claim of self-defense or provocation, legal
concepts well known (and often codified) in the criminal law as a defenses in assault-related
cases. It can be thought an instance of "victim
blaming". DARVO deconstructed is:
Deny the behavior: This is actually standard legal advice; whatever
else may happen during an investigation or subsequent proceedings, an initial
denial is unlikely to compromise a later defense whereas an admission, even if
later recanted, can be most damaging. An extreme example was the (unsuccessful) defense strategy of Ernst Kaltenbrunner (1903–1946; Austrian-born head of Reich Security Main Office (RSHA) in Nazi Germany 1943-1945) during the main Nuremberg trial (1945-1946). Whatever he was accused of, Kaltenbrunner, a trained lawyer, denied it; when shown his signature on a documents, he denied it was his, when shown photographs in which he appeared, he denied he'd ever been there and when witnesses attested to what he'd said, he denied he'd ever met them.
Attack the individual doing the confronting: This is the basis of the
claim of self-defense or provocation.
Self-defense can, depending on the fact of the case, be a good defense to
a charge of assault and can succeed even in instances of death where the charge
can be murder. The defense of
provocation where the prior conduct of the victim tends to be either remote in
time or indirect in the sense of something said rather than a physical attack,
can succeed as a defense but is introduced more often in mitigation as a factor
when considering sentencing.
Reverse the roles of Victim
and Offender: The perpetrator
assumes the victim role and turns the true victim (who can be a whistle blower previously
unknown to the perpetrator) into an alleged offender. The variations on this theme most typically
include (1) the perpetrator assumes the role of one "falsely accused"
or (2) attacks the accuser's credibility and blames the accuser of being the
perpetrator of a false accusation.
There is also Institutional DARVO which occurs when the DARVO is done by an
institution (or with institutional complicity) such as when police wrongly charge
rape victims with making a false complaint, institutional DARVO a form of what
in the literature of political science is called “institutional betrayal”. Structural DARVO describes the cultural
construct in patriarchal societies where institutions act to protect the
interest of its hegemonic components (in Western cultures those white, male and
rich). Other layers can be added to the
analysis depending on the structure of a society: In non-Western cultures which can be
essentially heterogeneous at what can be defined on some ethnic or racial
basis, it can benefit those belonging to the dominant religious, cultural or
tribal group. Anti-DARVO is an omnibus
term which encompasses both (1) the research & teaching in academic work describing
ways to reduce the negative impact of DARVO (2) actual legislative and
procedural innovations such as restrictions placed on the conduct of defense
counsel in certain proceedings, especially sexual assault cases.
Dr Jennifer J Freyd.The use of DARVO had for some time been controversial
before Dr Freyd in 1997 coined the acronym and some jurisdictions had introduced
some restriction of the extent to which defense counsel were permitted to attack
victims (judges are limited in the extent to which they can intervene),
especially on matters not directly connected with the offence. It was also of interest to the mental health
community, empirical research published in the literature of psychology & psychiatry
both noting the prevalence of DARVO during victim-perpetrator confrontations
and a striking correlation among many of the victims displaying feelings of
self-blame, the more DARVO the perpetrator used during the interactions, the
more victims reported feeling blameworthy for the wrongdoing. Given the long history of the understanding of
the imbalance in the power relationship between perpetrators (usually male) and
victims (usually female), the findings were not suggested as unexpected. One of the most interesting findings to
emerge was the importance perpetrators place on the building of the social
capital which surrounds their relationship with the victim. For those who have committed abusive acts,
the ability to influence how others perceive them and their victims is
indispensable and typically this involves convincing those within their social
circle (and even bystanders) either that nothing abusive happened and even if
it appeared so it was not harmful.
Constructing a perception that the victim is untrustworthy gives the
perpetrator a clear advantage in both social networks and the legal system. Ultimately, in the absence of other evidence
(as, inherently is often the case in these matters), in court it is a battle of
competing narratives, the credibility of the authors often decisive.
Dr Freyd’s codification of DARVO however
focused attention, both in law reform and the mental health community, the
latter having previously documented tactics adopted by perpetrators to temper
reactions to their wrongdoings, the umbrella term “outrage management” a
construct which included a set of techniques employed to mitigate observers’
negative evaluations of both perpetrators and their objectionable behaviors. Notably, this included casting doubt onto the
credibility of the victim and denying the victims’ versions of events or, more
typically, re-constructing the narrative to make them seem something innocuous. Also identified were strategies intended to deflect
blame for wrongdoing even if to some extent admitted: (1) Emphasize previous
good behavior or (2) highlight some past suffering (thus inherently identifying
as a victim). Again, both these approaches
will be familiar to defense counsel, even those never involved with sexual
assault cases. DARVO may thus be
understood as generalized critique, although it’s most associated with sexual
assault cases or other violence against women.
Research about the real-world effect of
DARVO is interesting. The findings do suggest that exposure to a perpetrator’s
use of DARVO does to some extent displace at least some of the blame for the
abusive behavior from the perpetrator to the victim, this hinting at why
defense counsel so often adopt the tactic: It works. The success of DARVO is not that it usually
reverses the perception of a victim as blameless in favor of them being wholly culpable
but that it introduces elements of doubt.
DARVO indeed often seemed to decreases the extent to which perpetrators
are viewed as believable so the technique has the general effect of rendering
both victims and perpetrators less believable.
That’s perhaps a predictable consequence of something so obviously
antagonistic ("relational aggression" in the jargon). However, as a legal tactic, success is not
infrequent because the purpose of DARVO is not to actually render perpetrator as
victim but to induce a perception of doubt about the victim; in criminal
law, if that reaches the threshold of reasonable doubt then a jury, if properly
instructed, must acquit. In civil
proceedings, cases are decided on a “balance of probabilities” but there too,
the element of doubt must affect perceptions.
Amber Heard (b 1986).DARVO would presumably have remained little
more than part of the jargon of law and psychology had it not been for a
well-publicized defamation lawsuit (John C Depp II v Amber Laura Heard
(CL-2019-2911; Fairfax County Circuit Court)) between two celebrity actors, the
matters of dispute relating to the period of their brief and clearly turbulent
marriage. It was a trial notable for
reasons other than bringing the concept of DARVO to public attention, it being
unusual in the US for defamation suits by public figures to succeed, based on
precedent followed for some sixty years.
The substance of the suit was a piece written by Ms Heard and in 2018 published
in The Washington Post. Although the conventional legal wisdom is that
where the choice exists, one sues the party with the capacity to pay whatever judgment
one hopes to gain, in this case that was tempered by the robust protection courts
have afforded the news media under the First Amendment to the constitution. Mr Depp, as a public figure was anyway
limited in his capacity to seek redress for defamation but his strategy seemed
more risky still because of the earlier outcome in a defamation trial in an
English court in which he sued a newspaper which printed allegations much more
serious than anything mentioned by Ms Heard (who in her piece didn’t mention
his name). In that case (the verdict
later upheld on appeal) the judge ruled against Mr Depp, noting in his judgment
that "…the great majority of alleged
assaults of Ms Heard by Mr Depp have been proved to the civil standard” of
having, on the balance of probability, to have occurred as alleged. The conventional wisdom, widely shared at the
time, was that Mr Depp’s likelihood of success in a US court was smaller still.
Johnny Depp (b 1963).As it was, the judge in Virginia ruled any
mention of the English case or its verdict inadmissible but whether or not the
jury were aware (or during proceedings made themselves aware) of the matter isn’t
known. The celebrity association aside,
it was thus a trial of some technical interest, Ms Heard in her piece taking the
precaution (if any doubt existed) of self-identifying as ”…a public figure representing domestic abuse". Mr Depp sued on the grounds that Ms Heard’s
statements had damaged his career and reputation; Ms Heard counter-sued on the
basis that one or Mr Depp’s legal team had defamed her in statements published
in an English newspaper. Ms Heard’s
defense was on the basis of (1) truth and (2) her free speech being protected by
the First Amendment.
Dr Kate Manne.The jury found for both Mr Depp and Ms
Heard in their respective suits although, given the nature of the claims and
the quantum of damages awarded, it could hardly be represented as anything
but a victory for Mr Depp. That of
course was greeted with much commentary on social media though little of that
was helpful, reflecting mostly the nature of celebrity culture, Mr Depp’s
groupies both more numerous and more strident than those of his ex-wife. More serious criticism did however discuss
the extent to which the verdict could be thought a successful execution of DARVO. Tellingly, many lawyers noted not only was it
exactly that but nor was unusual, the novelty more the publicity attached to it
being something between film stars. The
feminist critique was more severe, some claiming that DARVO works as well as it
does because it interacts with “himpathy” (the construct him + (sym)pathy) coined
by Cornell philosophy professor Dr Kate Manne (b 1983) and defined as “the inappropriate and disproportionate
sympathy men and boys (and the more powerful or influential the man the greater
the himpathy) often enjoy in cases of sexual assault, intimate partner
violence, homicide and other misogynistic behavior”).
DARVO and himpathy are recent constructs
but both are said to represent the long history of sympathy shown toward male
perpetrators of sexual violence, women having long been expected to endure
sexism (including violence) as part of their defined gender role which includes
protecting men's reputation and power. That of course went beyond being a social construct and was reflected in Western
legal systems, women (and the bulk of her possessions) often literally “owned” by a
husband or father and rape within marriage a statutory impossibility until well
into the twentieth century. DARVO for
its success draws on those cultural biases.
Johnny Depp & Amber Heard, Australia, 2015.Depp v Heard (a civil matter with a jury
not sequestered and thus exposed to what were essentially un-mediated publicity
campaigns on social media) was obviously not a typical trial and what its
effect might be on later criminal matters (with which DARVO is more associated)
is uncertain. Lawyers do however note
that in the US, relatively few cases actually proceed to trial and the greatest
(and substantially unpublicized) effect is on prosecutors who decide not to
proceed with cases (or downgrade charges) because, cognizant of the
effectiveness of DARVO, take the decision there’s no reasonable prospect of
securing a conviction. This can be
understood as an example of institutional DARVO, reinforcing the imbalance of
power which typically exists between victim (typically female) and perpetrator
(typically male) and it should not be unexpected that an institution created by
the hegemon should act to protect the hegemony. So, there was nothing contradictory when lawyers
remarked of Depp v Heard that the jury’s verdict was remarkable given the evidence
and unsurprising given the history.